{"id":145,"date":"2020-08-15T22:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-15T14:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifecoaching.sg\/LIFESCOOP\/?p=145"},"modified":"2020-07-20T14:15:35","modified_gmt":"2020-07-20T06:15:35","slug":"confront-the-brutal-truth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifecoaching.sg\/LIFESCOOP\/confront-the-brutal-truth\/","title":{"rendered":"Confront the Brutal Truth"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>In Jim Collin\u2019s book, \u201cGood to Great: why some companies make the leap\u2026and others don\u2019t\u201d, there is a chapter titled, \u201cConfront the Brutal Truth\u201d.<br><br>Is it important to confront the truth? The Bible says that &#8220;The Truth will set you Free&#8221;. However, facing the truth is not easy. Why? Because The Truth can be Brutal! The human ego prefers to &#8220;sugar coat&#8221; the truth &amp; believes that everything is ok when it&#8217;s not. Hence, since time memorial, no one dares to tell the emperor that he&#8217;s not wearing clothes &#8212; &#8220;The<br>Emperor&#8217;s New Clothes&#8221; lest he\/she risks being beheaded.<br><br>It is precisely this failure to face the truth that leads individuals to live a life of mediocrity instead of a life of success and significance. The same failure to confront the truth also leads to empires &amp; organisations crumbling &amp; &#8220;disappearing&#8221; for good.<br><br>So, what can we do to tackle this problem of Failure to Confront the Brutal Truth at both the personal and the organisational levels?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><u>i) The Personal Level<\/u><br>At the personal level, how well do we know ourselves? How prepared are we to know ourselves truthfully i.e. our strength &amp; weakness? How often do we reflect &amp; ask ourselves how we could improve ourselves? How we can leverage on our strength &amp; ensure that our weakness do not trip us in our journey of life?<br><br>Or do we pretend that everything&#8217;s fine &amp; there&#8217;s no need to take further action? Do we look at &#8220;The Man in the Mirror&#8221; squarely &amp; truthfully? Is the mirror an accurate one or is it meant only to show us all the sweet &amp; nice things about ourselves?<br><br>Assuming that we get past the stage of the &#8220;ego&#8221; to accurately see ourselves for who we truly are (Awareness \u609f), do we take Massive Action Daily (Living the 3rd Habit of Discipline) to improve ourselves on a daily basis (Cultivation \u4fee)?<br><br>Or do we Busy \u5fd9 ourselves with many small things &amp; therefore become Blind \u76f2 to our true self and what is important for our own growth, learning, purpose &amp; happiness?<br><br>Interesting, the Ministry of Education recognises the importance of Self-awareness &amp; Self-management and is aiming to equip our students with competencies in these domains under the framework of Social Emotional Learning<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><u>ii) The Organisational Level<\/u><br>At the organisational level, many do envisioning exercises and come up with many beautifully framed Vision &amp; Mission Statements. Unfortunately, many of these are crafted with little or no awareness &amp; understanding of the &#8220;ground&#8221; i.e. the organisation&#8217;s current reality (capacity of its people, their readiness to change etc) &#8212; i.e. the Brutal Truth. Hence, it is no surprise that despite many envisioning exercises &amp; beautiful vision &amp; mission statements, many of these organisations failed to achieve the success they envision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes, organisations hide unpleasant results to their detriment. There are many examples of companies who have gone bust\/extinct\/bankrupt (The Boiled Frog Syndrome). One way to get round this is to confront organisation&#8217;s ego, strategically see the issues (are these issues situational or systemic?) &amp; then do the necessary remedial action i.e. &#8220;correction point&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In conclusion, our results \u679c (be it at Personal or Organisational levels) are dependent on the following causes \u56e0:<br>i) Our Ability to See\/Understand the Truth (\u609f)<br>ii) Our Ability to Do\/Take Massive Action to Correct\/Improve (\u4fee)<br>iii) Our Ability to Finish Strong (\u4fee)<br>In short, the four Chinese Characters, \u609f\u4fee\u56e0\u679c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In Jim Collin\u2019s book, \u201cGood to Great: why some companies make the leap\u2026and others don\u2019t\u201d, there is a chapter titled, \u201cConfront the Brutal Truth\u201d. Is it important to confront the truth? The Bible says that &#8220;The Truth will set you Free&#8221;. However, facing the truth is not easy. Why? Because The Truth can be Brutal! 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